vida que segue...

Para o bem e para o mal. 

backup plan

"I love you until the weekend begins"

Well, not anymore...!

the truth, the best choice

Always, even if it hurts... 

It's better crying due to reality than pretend everything is fine. By the way: 

Yes, one wil be constantly supporting the other in a couple - more than anybody else! 

No, who really loves won't be the one making the partner laugh with lies (just to be cooool...) 

Consciously, no one has any doubt about that.

que sea eterno mientras sonriente ♥

pour toujours

Oui, j'y crois!

behavioral inconsistency

(not to say 'hypocrisy')

That is what everyone who intend to judge someone else must evaluate (in his life, in 'himself') before applying it and acting as a prude! Or better yet: a moralist holding his underpants saying "it is NOT what you are thinking". Thereabouts... not practicing what you preach, briefly.
 
His mother married his uncle (her brother-in-law);
Father of four, he left his all children with their mothers (or whoever) to live freely;
He passed his whole life playing games of chance, drinking and smoking. Lost much money; finally , when he won, overspent everything. Guess how...?!;
During about 20 years, he used to have two relations at the same time;
On all his relationships, he always cheated, sleeping with cousins, friends and all relatives besides other strangers who charm him. Not being very selective... or even 'enough', sometimes;
In his seventies, he blame women not to be capable to make him horny (hard... you know!), disregarding his age or health conditions;
There are some complaints about conjugal violence against him;
As a lawyer, he should recpect the rules of society, and government - specialy the traffic ones. Anyhow, he is not supposed to accuse anybody whitout having duly proofs.

Thus, tell me (PLEASE!!!) if this guy deserves our attention while beefing about other's behavior - mainly women's (due to jealousy of his girlfriends/affairs). By the way, accordind to his referecences, WHO IS HIM to bemoan about 'morality'? A model NOT TO BE FOLLOWED, of course... A bad example - only this. 

It seems: the worst the behavior, the largest the anger. Sorry, but 'disgusting' is being nosey like that... Sick! Unjust, unfair, WRONG.

Well, let he who is without sin cast the first stone...

no lies

Doesn't matter whether we are on Fools' Day, or not... 

attraversiamo

"Let's cross over".

Quote of the movie Eat Pray Love duly applied.

long since

... and it has been until now. 

Because of the others... worse!

Notwithstanding, at that moment, they don't had facebook.

At least, less meddling.

rien de rien

Non ! Rien de rien
Non ! Je ne regrette rien
Ni le bien qu'on m'a fait
Ni le mal tout ça m'est bien égal !

Non ! Rien de rien
Non ! Je ne regrette rien
C'est payé, balayé, oublié
Je me fous du passé !

Avec mes souvenirs
J'ai allumé le feu
Mes chagrins, mes plaisirs
Je n'ai plus besoin d'eux !

Balayées les amours
Et tous leurs trémolos
Balayés pour toujours
Je repars à zéro

Non ! Rien de rien
Non ! Je ne regrette rien
Ni le bien, qu'on m'a fait
Ni le mal, tout ça m'est bien égal !

Non ! Rien de rien
Non ! Je ne regrette rien
Car ma vie, car mes joies
Aujourd'hui, ça commence avec toi !

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Cette parole exprime très bien mes réflexions de fin de l'année. Les transformations passées, tout le changement, une reprise de vie, mon avenir ainsi... en couple dorénavant, à l'étranger.

Mais oui, c'est en français que mon histoire est racontée maintenant!

Écoutez cette belle chanson interprété par Edith Piaf.

to the future!

I'm not stuck in old memories, bygone loves.

I don't want back in my life failed stuff of yore. Overcome, I turn the page, clear the stage.

Alternatively, I prefer to move on, try something refreshing, find new people...

A start from scratch is thriving, full of different possibilities!

While others look for their past, receding, I go forward. 

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I avoid anchors(men - not saying sailors or presenters), I'm all for balloons (ones).

perfection

Seeking mine, our peace. 

breakfast

Mealtime is something! Probably, it also means being the thermometer of many relationships.

Coffee and sandwich in the morning are not that important, as long as partners still care about each other. After all, the relevant is love. 

Although once I heard the story of a nice couple who split because of egoism in preparing their breakfast, I honestly feel that small details may be easily overcome.

Albeit it is built and keep by little things which make all the difference. Thus, I understand the end since there is a lack of affection.

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A surefire recipe to save you of these dark moments:

- heat the approach to start;

- grease the feelings with tenderness; 

- flour enough sincerity and respect;

- blend double full measure of love; 

- add a good dose of willingnes;

- beat everything in regular intercourses;

- bake your relationship to keep it always hot;

- cool you in water bath sometimes; 

- caresses, to taste.

arousal

Everything a man dream about his wife, girlfriend, affair, lass, date (or whatever!), is that she loves sex. Maybe, being so much optimist, hitting the jackpot (as used to say a pervert old friend): someone who doesn't disgust anything under the sheets!

Albeit, sometimes, are just men who doesn't keep the pot boiling. Perhaps because of fatigue, a mistress, drugs (or alcohol) problems, monotony, or for not coming out... Unlucky! - man, woman, couple; unfortunate relationship.

One way or another, leaving much to be desired... 

(besides she, still horny, at a loss what to do)

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Read an article about. 

la tentative

La mienne.

J'essaye fort fort. Je le jure.
 
Toutefois, c'est pas facile.

Petit à petit, je me perds en le perdant. 

En fait: il me perd.

sacrement!

1.1 km
880 pas
13 minutes 

sans regarder en arrière.

Loin, distant... 

... toute seule?

Des rêves échoués. 
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tight

Take my hand and I will follow you, wherever! Forever.

Sometimes, we just need this: being together. Closer.

Other, only a tender look can prove that by itself... Little acts of kindness. 

Everyone has his own way to demonstrate affection, which varies across different cultures. It's solely important that love doesn't ever be put aside, let behind. Never.

on the board

Only one year together. So many things to celebrate, though.

A whole life changed, a big decision made. Choise... opportunity.

What is more, we have a promising future ahead of us. Everything which has passed, strengthen what is coming.

Nothing happens by chance.
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For this special moment, a good song by Cícero.

turning...

into a delicate situation:

Everything was fine until a little detail broke the harmony. Then, all problems came out. A complete 180-degree turn in seconds!

The end of the day was lost by complaints about life - which is not perfect FOR EVERYBODY. Well, never mind... I may make things worse saying that (or anything else). 

Too bad! - for health, heart, love, relationship...

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twice stronger

For some (in North America), Halloween (which celebrates death on 31th October - that is: soon!); for other, St. Cosmas and St. Damian Day (commemorated yesterday, with lots of goody and candies - as it will be here in the end of the month)... I prefer the second choice, once it's my culture, besides being connected to children. 

*By the way, so I am by now. What a grace! 

The best way to enjoy it is being with them. Perfect. ♥

discourtesy

act 1

(M) - I should go, girls...
(F) - Why?
(S) - She'll make the dinner.
(M) - Actually, it's my husband's turn tonight. He just called me to know what I want to eat.
(F) - Ah, cute...
(M) - ... but, what's the problem in going home to cook for us?
(S) - Oh, in fact, no one. I just miss these 'couple's things'... Sorry.

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act 2

(M) - If you want to pay less, I know where the prices are lower.
(S) - Great! Thanks for helping.
(F) - God, you really seems be a housewife with all these tips of specials!
(M) - But, actually, I AM! I've been being for years - even while single, or when I was working... I always buy according weekly flyers. Though, now, the difference is that I try to optimize my husband's money.

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an actual fairytale

I'm sure that, when with someone, in a real relationship, forming their own family, the ironic and coarse speech of little girls like these will be not the same. They'll not complain about cook, or even take care of their family finances. Everything will be done with love, gladly.

Being a housewife is neither my dream of life nor is a life model for me (not at all!). However, I prefer to be a happy one than a jealous or unloved woman.

I sincerely don't think I should (nor do I deserve) to ride defensively because of that...

overcoming

At least, it is supposed to be - in any levels. Always.

If it is not, it doesn't worth. So, this is really the end.

It seems I have already watched this film... But, no, I didn't. It is another one now. Other story, different.

We look forward to the scenes of the next chapters of this new movie. They will be better, for sure.