being a princess

Brides are real princesses: romantic women who believe in love.

The brave ones, trying (not to say "facing") the couple's life... probably with kids in the future.

Actually, they are strong heros. Yes, we are ❤

dreamer

I believe in love.

mais amor, menos rancor

O quanto podemos suportar desajudados?

Alguns dizem que quando falamos algo, isto ganha força ao exteriorizarmos.

Ao mesmo tempo, pergunto-me quão mal nos faz o fato de remoer sentimentos interiormente, sem desabafar a respeito. Com o tempo, podem tomar conta da gente!

Compartilha-los parece-me ser afim de aliviar as tensões, as agonias e transtornos pessoais, não?! Uma vez divididos, penso que enfraquecem dentro de nós.

Se fôssemos capazes de superar sozinhos tais problemas, creio que seria dispensável o trabalho dos colegas psicólogos e psiquiatras. E não é o caso... Ombros e ouvidos amigos se fazem igualmente necessários.

Bom, o que eu sei é que as coisas tem a dimensão e importância que damos a elas. Independemente. Só tememos o que (a)creditamos.

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resolução

O primeiro a pedir desculpas é o mais corajoso.
O primeiro a perdoar é o mais forte.
E o primeiro a esquecer é o mais feliz.

everything is possible

Nothing could be stronger than our dreams.

We must attempt. It's never too late to start life over, differently, in a good  way.

Hey ho, let's go! I believe, and help you.

(what about you?!)

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Any effort, every little step is very important to reach anything we want. However, it will always have temptations on the way - (bad) past things that are supposed to remain there... away.

How unbeatalbe will us let them be as to disturb and hinder us to achieve it? Will them trip us, deviating us completely from our goals?

We can NOT forget we are not alone. People can help, strengthen together our foible.  

We must be patients, married. Love is crucial, reinforce. 

Everything counts. Nevertheless, it's always a personal decision. 

It's all about choices, (good)will(power).

la diplomatie

Inspirée pour qui ma aidé dans le passé, j'ai decidé de le faire aussi.

J'éspere pouvoir également appuyer quelquun, lui donner une direction, si le cas échoit.

C'est le minimum, car est juste à ma portée...

'Gentileza gera gentileza', comme disait déjà le prophète.

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lourde envie

Je n'aime pas avoir besoin de raconter mon histoire pour faire quelqu'un y croire.

En effet, ce moment maintenant est là, pour tout le monde en profiter.

L'amour est léger. Faque je me sans comme ça aussi...(même si) attachée à ma vie ballon. Je laisse faire...

Pauvres de ceux qui n'y le croient pas.
 

printemps érable

J'y crois!

Soyons ensemble, en paix...

j'y crois

Yes, I do.

Unconditionally.

 There are models of a life as a couple who inspire me a lot.

my great special way to be in love

Unexpectedly (? - or not…), you look at him and simply happens: you fell in love. The best part of this story is the fact that is reciprocal. At the same time, in the same way, he answers you while reacting courteously to you.

Simply perfect! - when both crush on each other concomitantly. I believe it is possible, even with all difficulties, all mistakes and bad experiences which I’ve already had. Nothing is better than the opportunity to feel that at least once in life... 

I‘m really blessed. It has occurred with me four times, and I lived them with all my heart. Now, I sincerely hope that happens one more time - the last one, maybe.  For a long time, I’ve been waiting for my prince, who will prove me that real fairy tail are possible, even being imperfect.

So, today, on São João's Day, I just want to ask Him a chance to show all good feelings which exist inside me. 

suffer from want

Well, although I admit I'm the queen of platonic lovings, I hardly feel it is dangerous once I can hurt myself while believing in something unreal... maybe impossible!

Inevitable, I guess it happens due everything I’ve trusted. After all, I believe in love. Thus, I’m opened to leave it reaches me as I’ve ever wanted.

As far as I’m concerned, even with all disappointments, I’m in the right way… bearing, but conscious that the happiness is the next step to be given for my dreams.

true-lies agenda

It is said, here in Brazil, that the year begins after the carnival… Well, it used to be true. Nowadays, for the major part of population another period starts later… only when the BBB finish , what changes its  programming. As a consequence, every evening is going to be different for them from now. Since the end of this reality, for each one a new program is awaited.

The present doubtful 'real life' is driving me crazy since I simply can’t believe on nobody else anymore! So, I would like to can say that it all this is a big lie. However, unfortunately, it is not… It is our true.

Further:

I...

- should not be here;

- would be married if I had come back one more step behind;

- am not well-liked there for who is main important.

a past story as begun as not finished

Engaged with one of the most popular guys of the city, the also successful professional woman is quite satisfied. They compound a beautiful pair, envied for most part of single people, besides the couples… Inseparable, they are seen everywhere. This solemn-name family goes to cultural programming together.

Their children are not only so polite but also equally happy. Esteeming to each other is the main ingredient for their sweet united lives. All dinning are special, cooked with love. The sex is really fantastic due to the past experience of both. They are perfect lovers since they were introduced at Lancheria eight year ago.

A white two-floors house in the south area of the city, with big dogs running on the green garden, is often visited by closer friends and colleagues - famous people inclusively - owing to their jobs. On weekends, is a haunt of barbecues with pocket show of local singers or poets. Table of chess, card games, pool, ping pong and 'totó', as well as pinball entertain their “old” friends while the youngers play in the swimmingpool (or videogame  - against some adult guys). In the juke box, classic records are played.

Even the age difference between them - included the stepson, the twins and the little girl still inside her belly, was not enough to separate these good partners. Nor the 21 years which in the beginning were the double of his age (exactly when she was at  prime of her life) are a problem. It haven't ever been...indeed. This lack is necessary to complete themselves, making them entire, as only one.

Old school (or 'old is cool') always has been an important lesson there, in their home… minds, hearts, souls. The believe in them is with her, regardless of anything happened earlier, during or is coming in the future, soon. 

I'm sure that she would be happy living (exactly right now) this ‘their‘ story… (perfectly imperfect due to its no expectations, matters not told, a mystery made) I guess that could be possible, as the another world they  used to believe, even being separated.

It is just a look back (or forward?) of mine, reminding me dreams that haven't come true - but could, though.

bad wolf block(ed)

Today, on the April Fools Day everything may be said, believed and forgotten. Thus, a little care is pretty good...

Oppotunity makes thieves - inclusively, I recently knew (the other face of) one, and it wasn't a special occasion for it. There are many wolves (in sheep’s skin clothing) around, just waiting for a chance to get the jump on an innocent sheep (= someone ill-advised).

as mentiras que os homens contam

A maioria, obviamente, desculpas sexuais.

Alguns clássicos que valem por quase todas:

“Não é o que você está pensando” - no flagra

“Isso nunca aconteceu comigo” - quando broxam

“Eu te amo” - para levar qualquer mulher pra cama

“Só nas coxinhas” (sem comentários!)

É, eles tentam... *E, às vezes, até dá para fazer de conta que "acreditamos".

vereda

Ninguém disse que seria fácil. Nunca. Nem eu acredito muito naquilo que vem de graça, sem esforço.

Prefiro conquistar o que possuo, seja o que e como for. Não nego, no entanto, que um pouquinho de sorte é sempre bom. Ajuda.

Convicta, sigo forte no propósito, passando pelas vírgulas, rumo a meu ponto final. Reticências agora... no aguardo de resultados, depois de alguns testes.

a possibilidade perdida

 

Fui até o meu limite.

O que me fazia acreditar era uma plausível oportunidade de sermos felizes juntos, enquanto fosse possível - e era. Não insistiria em algo improvável.

Poderia ter dado certo, de qualquer forma. Mas, como um sonho que se tem sozinho é apenas um sonho, vou em busca da minha realidade para ser vivida com outro alguém, em outro contexto.

Não deu certo, paciência. Faz parte tentar. E seguir em frente, sempre. A grandeza desse amor todo está em mim - esse é o (meu) segredo.

era uma vez...

Quando eu era criança, eu via aquele menino na televisão e sonhava um dia namorá-lo. Como as coisas são... Quem diria que viria a conhecê-lo e trabalharíamos juntos hoje?!

O “amor” não perdurou (era fantasia infantil), mas a certeza que não devemos duvidar das possibilidades está mais viva do que nunca. O limite é não acreditar.

Nada é impossível. Não podemos desistir de nossos sonhos – jamais!

amor, estranho amor

Desde sempre foi assim: plim!

Nunca me questionei se isso era normal, se com o outro também acontecia da mesma forma. Se o encantamento era grande, por que não investir? – essa sim era a grande dúvida.

Com o passar do tempo, porém, fui entendendo do que se tratava. Minha tendência a fantasiar sempre me fez acreditar, mesmo quando eram remotas as possibilidades.

Não me arrependo de nenhuma das minhas investidas. Ser uma romântica nunca me fez mal, porque sempre fui feliz me apaixonando, mesmo nos desacertos.

Vivi intensamente as vontades que tive, todos os amores possíveis. Se não deram certo, foi porque não era a hora, ou a pessoa ideal, e não por falta de tentiva.

Embora em mim, e por isso só 'MEUS', vejo nesses amores platônicos que tive, e até no de agora (suponho), uma preparação, um ensaio para uma realidade que ainda está por vir. Espero...