many women, few orgasms

Studies show that 70% of women has never reached orgasms with their partners. Ok, masturbating they come, but ... it would be better doing it together, wouldn't?!

I think so, besides hope for that. That's not to say, though, through penetration... It'll be easier for them with a long arousal period and foreplay games.

It seems that men are not efforting enough, once their partners fake orgasms. Really: women OFTEN do that, mainly in order not to disapoint them.

In this way, ladies help to build both lazy and impatient men, who will not be worried with women's pleasure. After all, they don't have to do their best in bed... by our own fault!

Well, today, in Orgasm Day, my campaign is to help boys to satisfy girls, before they leave them (joking...). In this article, some basic and simple efforts which men can do to change this unhappy situation. 

Good luck and practice!

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paradise

In the opposite direction of this occidental reality, in Mangaia, an island in the South Pacific, women live well (VERY well, indeed). There, while they learn to come, ALL men learn how to perform cunnilingus and bring their partners to orgasm (perhaps several times) before they have their own. 

Isn't wonderful?! Here, skilled gentlemen as those we hardly meet... Unfortunatelly.

Looking for a picture to illustrate this part of post, I found this kind of Aurora Borealis photo of there, its sky... a heaven for me.

Oh, my ("consumption") dreams... (!)

new life

Some old memories must be left behind in order to carry on.

We simply can't have a better tomorrow while don't stop thinking about yesterday.

So, today, I finally decided to release me, trying to make many of them remain only in the past.

No regrets, no ghosts, no lies anymore. From now, different moments, new records... A restart.

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Forgive/forget: 

ALMOST the same thing, having similar effect on me by now.

Hey ho, let's go!

desperate housewives

Wet, slow, continuum...

...  and she promised him (and her own self) not to complain about anything else if he suck her every night.

At that moment, nothing else matters!

Happiness secret is not so unreachable.

In the end, this is just what they want:

"Girls just wanna have fun". Simple as that.

someone's green

Surreal! It seems we still are children or teens... but, come on: we matured! (besides things have changed too)

At the same time, I'm "a little" proud that our relation is able to make others eat their heart out! (even if we DO NOT want it, or DID NOT instigate it!)

However, the limit is when jealousy becomes disrespect. Low blow... unacceptable at this point, in this way, between us. 

I swear I never thought I'd be in this embarassing situation... How deal with people who have bad intentions while we wish just love and peace? 

We really don't want any tiff. For the good of everybody, we'll work out a solution as adults we are. We think it will be enough...

Oh, I hope with all my heart the problem is ONLY this, not anything else!

a question of habit

A prove that it works:

Stimulated by the government to cooperate, Quebec people have reduced by 60% their consumption of plastic bags since 2007. It means around 1.2 billion fewer single-use plastic bags at nature.

It was more than expected! Nevertheless, there are still a billion which is being used. 

To change things, it's not so difficult... just willingness is enough. 

However, of course they were also encouraged by fees of $0,05 CAN each one (yes: here you pay for them - and its expensive!). If you have a big volume of grocery purchases, and you don't bring with you yours own reusable bags, you'll pay out some dollars. Many times in a year, it will be a kind of waste of money, a uncalled-for disbursement. Unnecessary.

On the other hand, and worse: environmentally, it becomes a problem. Actually, it's already a big one.

I admit when I just arrived, being really impressed by their eco awareness. Now, seeing this news on television, I was even more pround of living here as a green consumer who I try to be.
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Read more here.

specially for today

One swallow doesn't make a summer! 

Friends warm the life. 

I love mine. I miss them.

I'm very happy not to be alone, even far. 

Friendship has its internal feature. Genuine, it's something from inside to outside.... sincere.

My love is my best friend ♥ 

madly I do

Wondering myself about love notes of the past, I forget that the most important one came verbally, to me(!).

Incomparable, unrivaled, unsurpassed declaration of love... Silly, (married!) girl.

social climber passport

I really CAN'T stand (or believe in) someone who doesn't take off his wristband after going to a concert, party... any event! The possibility to keep it tighten (even worn) during the next day, just in order to show being a person of influence, a recent VIP area guest...  doesn't matter: It drives me crazy!

Sorry, but I think it is cheesy. We are not teenagers anymore. Moreover, I don't need to prove anything to anyone.

It's not something attached to my arm that will say who I am, or give me importance... My worth is not there. It's higher. 

Frivolousness - something which I hate of showbizz universe. I had forgotten how it's full of it...

Finally, (in Portuguese) "vão-se os anéis, ficam os dedos" - if you get what I mean...

take care!

Hell has no fury like a woman scorned...

Dia do Rock

 É nozes!

smooth biter

Boys have a penis, girls have a vagina - everybody knows... even children(!) This is a gospel!

So, when I discovered that, in French, vagina is masculine (a masculine word), I confess I was very astounded... After all, something so feminine would deserve a more delicate classification.

In my opinion (and head), things related to woman are in feminine grammar gender. It has been obvious... by now!

Un vagin - mon dieu! Il samble qu'il mordre! (bon, quelques fois, oui)

C'est la vie!

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Taking the opportunity, my favorite campaign of all:

the man's ultimate illusion

Marylin Monroe, a diva. One of the prettiest women we know.

Even almost fifty years since her death (on August 5, 1962), she is usually still taken as a model of beauty... (in the bargain: she was crowned best beach body of all time!)

Nevertheless, (even her, majestic!) she had a little tummy.

It's not a complaint about her shape, NOT AT ALL! I just want to illustrate how cruel the current esthetic patterns/demands may be.

Marylin is unquestionably gorgeous, "imperfect" as she was.

Nowadays, perfect women exist only in magazines covers and TV or cinema screens. On the streets and at home, with no Photoshop or After Effect, make-up or coiffeur, dressed as usual, we are all normal people, with some "defects".

Perfection is only both in our dreams, or expectations. The reality is other, though.

And David Burns, the noted best-seller psychiatrist, confirm that, continuing this post title, one of his quotes about perfection (the man's ultimate illusion), with: "It simply doesn't exist in the universe.... If you are a perfectionist, you are guaranteed to be a loser in whatever you do".

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By the way, this same (his) theory, I've applied for love.

(after all, "Men: can't live with them, can't live without them")

dutch sky

I always knew that dutch paradise is orange... 

As has happened since then, I discovered with my husband (at that moment my "chum", trying to impress me) la sauce hollandaise, in French.

It's creamy, dense, fort, heavy and, of course, fatty! Delicious. Furthermore, it matches perfectly with eggs, toasts and bacon (le méchant, which it's simply vicious!).

Well, while eating everything together, it seems we're in the heaven... the north-american one, indeed.

However, it was necessary come here, furthest, to taste it. Cruel. As it must be, though.
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How to make it? Here.

a place for everything and everything in its place

It's no use: other's mother IS NOT ours.

Lucky me to have mine, even far!

Going out of her way, truly pulling the universe out of her soul to help me and make me happy, this is priceless.
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everything has it's price!

Lately, Queen Elizabeth II revised the Royal Household Order of Precedence. Little changes involved only Kate Middleton, though, in order to remind her about her commoner roots.

At this newest protocol, the Duchess of Cambridge must curtsy to your husband's relatives unless she is with him. Probably the worst part will be do it, whether in private or in public, to Eugenie and Beatrice, two blood princesses, cousins of Prince William, when she meets them alone.

Well, if it is humiliation caused by Queen's jealousy of her popularity (as magazines have speculated by now) or if it is just respect for their old royal tradition, I really don't mind...(!) In my opinion, all monarchy stuff is completely old-fashioned and out of place nowadays.

After all, who pay for it? By the way, I sincerely don't understand how a country as Canada, for example, still maintains its political system tied with the British Royal Family, supporting them and their caprices (Kate's expensive new dresses, included!).

Tant pis au Québéc! (yes, unfortunately we are also paying for that...)
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in the bargain, I feel very blessed not to having a mother-in-law like princess Diana had.

Fortunately, I love mine! ♥

all is not lost

Each time that I watch some movie as The Corporation, among others (more or less political... doesn't matter!), I feel depressed. Serious! 

It"s not to say that I can't do anything to change it, but I really wonder myself about have children, for example... Why bring them to this dangerous world, where values are upside down (like money being more important than people)?

It seems that there is no solution, no future, no way... F*ck! 

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notwithstanding...

Of course if everybody who is unsatisfied does small (but important) acts in their own daily lifes, all of us, together, we can change something! By the way, we are the majority - 99% of the population(!)... exactly who suffers the most severe consequences of the capitalist system. Its not something we should disdain! In our actual situation, we can even say that its not worth doing nothing about that, just ignoring we have the most powerful power in our hands. And we do have... but only while united - refer to water privatization in Bolivia and its consequences.

Stopping drink Coke and eating at McDonald's (both with some difficulty, ok... but it's possible!), spurning Walmart specials, not buying at Zaara or using Nike, for example, I can do it. And these two latter, I've been doing yet for a long time... since I knew atrocities about them. Furthermore, recycling, not lying or betray people (including not cheating on my husband, for sure), and MAINLY voting in a good way, giving my vote for candidates who I think may be good to govern... yes, finally, I thing I've done my part! (phew!)

I sincerely DO NOT want my kids seeing me drinking coke, eating many McDonald's often.. or worse: taking me supporting psycho corporate bodies as a normal thing. After all, there are some standards that must be both explained and taught at home, since young. This is the minimum we can do not to leave wrong standards be got as the right ones. This is a matter of choice, but just when you have enough knowledge to do it by yourself, with no doubts.
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light-hearted
 

Today, in the 236th anniversary of the Declaration of Independence in the USA, the international known "Fourth of July" (which I really don't care about!), I would like to proclaim myself independent too.

No, I'm not a slave (of my work, at least, not anymore...!), and I'm not even a sad married woman... No, I DO NOT feel my life miserable, NOT AT ALL - and I'm a (still) happily married! However, I just want to be more free than I am right now. 

It's a subtle thing... I want to feel the lightness of life. Surprising, this is one of the most difficult feelings for me, to dabble in. Free mind, free spirit, no worries, no regrets.